When I'm in a situation like that I know that that person is doing the best they can with what they have at that moment. I usually just silently send them a blessing like, "The light of God in me salutes the light of God in you" and it seems to work well. I might ask God and my guardian angels to bring peace to our relationship, and then I let it go and my attachment to the outcome and it always brings about a win win situation. Hope that helps. Have a fabulous day Lindsey